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Decoding Bad Behavior in School
Many parents are frustrated with the bad behavior their children exhibit in school. They have children which are well behaved in most every other situation, but once they get to school, they act out. Other children act out at home as well as at school. Parents end up getting frustrated and sending their children to a child psychologist to get them the help they need.
Before taking any drastic measures, it is a good idea to take some time to talk to your child. Ask them if anything is bothering them. Often acting out is related to issues the child does not feel they can talk about. By presenting them with an environment which is safe, they can feel as if they can talk freely. This can mean giving them immunity from punishment for coming clean with what is bothering them.
Often when a child is acting out at school it has to do with the environment they are in. They are either not being properly challenged, or they are in an environment which is too advanced for them. It is a good idea to not set a child back when they make bad grades, but to find out the root of the bad grades. Bad grades can lead to bad behavior when parents make the wrong decisions.
Another way in which you can get to the root of what is bothering your child is to encourage them to express their feelings in paintings or through writing. This gives your child a non-judgmental environment in which they can express themselves. They will feel free to put down in words or art exactly what is on their mind. You can then easily see what is bothering them in order to identify it and help your child move on.
Only after exhausting every avenue you have available to you should you have your child see a professional. This is because many children will feel different or weird when they have to go to a psychologist. They do not like feeling as if they have something which they have to hide from the world. Give them every opportunity to avoid something which may cause them undue stress.